Presenting wedding favors to the guests who attend your ceremony and reception is one of the ways the bride and groom thanks them for celebrating with them. Wedding favors can be just about anything, from a handmade favor to a more elegant and expensive token. It is all up to the bride and groom and the amount they have budgeted to what type of wedding favors they will give as gifts to their guests.
No one is really sure how this tradition began, but there are records documenting brides and grooms giving away lace and beribboned love knots during the 16th - 17th centuries in England. There are different traditions for various cultures when it comes to giving out wedding favors. Giving favors to your departing guests is a lovely way to show your gratitude to them for sharing such an intimate experience with you.
An Italian wedding usually features favors of candy that are filled with almond paste or almonds. That is why you might see white chocolate covered almonds at an Italian themed wedding. The Chinese and traditional Jewish weddings are said not to give any type of favor at all. The Malaysian culture hands out delicately painted eggs as this is a sign of the couple’s fertility.
Greek brides and grooms used to receive glass charms shaped like eyes to help ward off bad luck. A couple of Greek extraction can turn this tradition around to their guests and present them with glass charms of any shape or symbol if not an eye. The Japanese and the Russian cultures both favor giving bud vases, picture frames and sachets as their way of saying thank you to their guests.
Modern brides and grooms have a vast selection from which to choose their wedding favors. There are choices such as earth friendly wedding favors, do it yourself wedding favors that the bride and groom can fashion themselves, and personalized wedding favors sure to please every guest. Wedding favors can be candy, chocolate or flowers. It is up to each individual couple to decide the proper wedding favor to hand to their guests as they are ready to go home.
If you need ideas and inspirations there are many publications, websites and bridal stores from which you can browse and comparison shop. Think about the last wedding you went to and what type of favor was handed out; did you use it, did it impress you? When you think in those terms it may be easier for you to choose just one kind of favor from the myriad of choices you will be presented with for thanking your guests on your wedding day.